Dear boy…

Please remember that behind every hello, every ‘like,’ every match, every swipe, every comment and every text, is a beautiful girl. A girl who has feelings. A girl who has been strong for too long a time. A girl who has been fighting to stay brave and keep shining even when she wants to give…

Planting the seed…

CHANGE YOUR MINDSET. EXPRESS GRATITUDE. My favourite night of the week, Saturday, spent with my favourites. 8 month old puppy Frankie and only purchased today, house plant Terrence. Together, we’re living the dream. Whilst I drink wine, Frankie chews on his designated sock, looking at me lovingly every 3- 5 minutes and Terrence just sits…

Apparently, good things come to those who wait…

WELL, I’VE WAITED. AND I’M STILL WAITING. It began on the weekend. When I was confronted with a blast from the past. In hindsight, I knew that all I wanted was a friendship like we had had so long ago with someone new that could give me everything. I reflected. I realised, why on earth…

Online dating or online frustrating???

NOT SNOOZING. STILL LOSING. I’ve said it once and I’ll say it again. Online dating is dead to me. Scoff if you may, regale me the tales of when I have said this very statement time and time before; but it’s the truth. Here I am, 30, a catch and an established, driven and independent…

Being a modern day woman in the modern world of dating…

RATE ME OR HATE ME. Yesterday, I turned the not so dreaded 30. An age I was actually ridiculously excited about and feel will bring with it many opportunities to see with a clear perspective through a glass half full of red wine. The weekend before, a date I had. False hope he gave me….

Got myself a man!

THE HUNT IS OVER. In the span of a week, I landed myself a man. After searching for someone who gets me, is committed, who will never leave my side and loves me unconditionally. I’ve found him. We met online. Had our first date, under dim lighting. And I just knew. By the weekend, he…